You’ve got to get out of the business of apologizing for being YOU!
It’s BS to hear “in order for things to change, you have to leave your comfort zone”. Who in their right mind would trade a bed of Roses for a bed of nails? That’s what it’s like you know, trading up what brings you peace, for the sake of appeasing others.
Saying that you’re single these days, implies that you’re in the market and up for grabs. When the truth is, quite possibly, you’re enjoying the freedom of solitude.
Yes, I said FREEDOM!
What started out as an exhale, (when you arrive home and close the door behind you. And all around you is your space. Your things where you left them. Nobody there forcing you to be on duty) becomes a gulp of fresh air.
Solitude, can be the most loving embrace that you’ve ever been in. Such a welcome reprieve from the judgements of others.